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ANEW LOVE

I found  a new love. A different kind of love. A love that makes me giggle hard, a love that brings out the youth in me. And it feels so unreal, it feels too perfect.   I definitely know these are butterflies but I sincerely love them, I doubt I will leave this honey moon phase soon as my mind thinks. I love this euphoria, I want to keep this love. This one feels special. It feels divine. I am ready to be blown away by every stage of the love. It screams protected, loved, babied, pampered all the good stuff.  Affirmations, attention, understanding, love, every single thing! I found anew love, I was not ready for it, I thought I would hurt him because I was not ready, it was just my mind trying to rob me of this beautiful thing that has happened to me. I glow differently, I am not worried, I am rest assured.  I feel like a wife, I feel important like I mean something to someone who isn't my family. I want this forever, I want this to last but I also know this are feelings and feelin

THE KIND OF LOVE EVERY WOMAN DESERVES

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  Every woman deserves a soft love. Every woman deserves a love that makes her forget her past; the hurts and the pains. A love that makes her safe, a love that makes her confident, a love that makes her walk with her head held up high. Why should she be denied of this? why should she get less?  Every woman deserves the kind of love that makes her better, the kind of love that makes her count her blessings and count her man twice. Every woman deserves the love that reminds her how beautiful she is, the kind of love that makes her miss her man by her side.  Water the plant, so you can enjoy its benefits, for the land is only greener where you water it.  This post is to let every woman know that they deserve the love that is not toxic, the love that appreciates their effort.  It is high time that every woman learns not to settle for less, not to settle for the love that does not cause them to smile, that does not make them happy. No matter your age, you deserve true love, and I want you

LOVING A BROKEN MAN

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How to love a broken man   Introduction There's no sugarcoating it: loving a broken man is hard. It takes patience, understanding, and a whole lot of love. But if you're up for the challenge, it can be the most rewarding thing you'll ever do. So, what should you expect when loving a broken man? Let's take a look. Loving a Broken Man Takes Time, Effort, and Patience It's not easy loving a broken man. In fact, it can be downright exhausting. You have to be prepared to put in a lot of time, effort, and patience if you want the relationship to work. Broken men are used to being let down, so you'll have to make a concerted effort to show him that you're different. Be there for him when he needs you and don't give up on him easily. He'll appreciate it more than you can imagine. A Broken Man Is Someone Who Has Been Hurt in the Past I've been there. I know what it's like to love someone who's been hurt in the past. It's not easy, because a br

HOW I LOVED THE WRONG MAN

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  I loved the wrong man I believed I understood what love was. I was mistaken. When I first met him, I was captivated by him. He fulfilled every expectation I had for a partner. He had success, charisma, and good looks. When we first started dating, everything seemed ideal. But eventually, I began to detect his true colors. He was entirely oblivious to my needs, manipulative, and self-centered. I didn't understand I was in a toxic relationship for a very long time. Finally, I put an end to things, and it was the wisest move I ever took. Now that I'm happier and healthier than ever, I'm driven to educate other women about the warning signs of a toxic relationship so they won't make the same errors I did. The early days When I first met John, I thought he was the perfect man. He was charming, handsome, and successful. We hit it off immediately and started dating. I was head-over-heels in love with him. However, it didn't take long for me to realize that John was

How to Help A Partner With An Unresolved Past

  Hey dear, you are welcome to this blog. I know why you are here, and I am happy and glad to have you. You have probably been thinking and asking yourself so many questions. Well, whilst I may not be able to answer all of your questions, I am here to guide you and help the situation.  So you are in a relationship with someone you love and wish to spend the rest of your life with, but you are unsure because you feel there are a lot of things underlying that need to be resolved.  You do not want to end your relationship because you love them and you know they love you too. You do have a good reason to slow things down, and that you are here reading this blog is because you are searching for a solution. That's okay. In this article, I will be telling you 5 things you can do to help a partner with an unresolved past. The First thing I will mention is  Do n't try to fix them I get it. You're sick and tired of seeing them in pain, both emotionally and physically, and you just wa