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        Our different cultures and tribes have made it difficult for most people to marry people of their choice!     It is honestly painful and sad that our different tribes play a major role in our love affair. Many relationships are breaking everyday because of tribe differences. And because of this many people have married partners whom their hearts do not desire just because they want to please their parents. Sometime ago I was speaking with a friend and I asked him his thoughts about inter-tribal marriage.  And he opened up to me to say he had similar challenge when he brought his wife home. His mother and sisters were against his wife to be and it was really a challenge. What he did? He called his mother and spoke to her from his heart, making her understand that he has found love with the lady he brought home. He pacified his mother and made her see the good in his wife to be and she did. Firstly we need to erase this tribe mentality and look deeper int