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LOVING A BROKEN MAN

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How to love a broken man   Introduction There's no sugarcoating it: loving a broken man is hard. It takes patience, understanding, and a whole lot of love. But if you're up for the challenge, it can be the most rewarding thing you'll ever do. So, what should you expect when loving a broken man? Let's take a look. Loving a Broken Man Takes Time, Effort, and Patience It's not easy loving a broken man. In fact, it can be downright exhausting. You have to be prepared to put in a lot of time, effort, and patience if you want the relationship to work. Broken men are used to being let down, so you'll have to make a concerted effort to show him that you're different. Be there for him when he needs you and don't give up on him easily. He'll appreciate it more than you can imagine. A Broken Man Is Someone Who Has Been Hurt in the Past I've been there. I know what it's like to love someone who's been hurt in the past. It's not easy, because a br...

HOW I LOVED THE WRONG MAN

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  I loved the wrong man I believed I understood what love was. I was mistaken. When I first met him, I was captivated by him. He fulfilled every expectation I had for a partner. He had success, charisma, and good looks. When we first started dating, everything seemed ideal. But eventually, I began to detect his true colors. He was entirely oblivious to my needs, manipulative, and self-centered. I didn't understand I was in a toxic relationship for a very long time. Finally, I put an end to things, and it was the wisest move I ever took. Now that I'm happier and healthier than ever, I'm driven to educate other women about the warning signs of a toxic relationship so they won't make the same errors I did. The early days When I first met John, I thought he was the perfect man. He was charming, handsome, and successful. We hit it off immediately and started dating. I was head-over-heels in love with him. However, it didn't take long for me to realize that John was...

How to Help A Partner With An Unresolved Past

  Hey dear, you are welcome to this blog. I know why you are here, and I am happy and glad to have you. You have probably been thinking and asking yourself so many questions. Well, whilst I may not be able to answer all of your questions, I am here to guide you and help the situation.  So you are in a relationship with someone you love and wish to spend the rest of your life with, but you are unsure because you feel there are a lot of things underlying that need to be resolved.  You do not want to end your relationship because you love them and you know they love you too. You do have a good reason to slow things down, and that you are here reading this blog is because you are searching for a solution. That's okay. In this article, I will be telling you 5 things you can do to help a partner with an unresolved past. The First thing I will mention is  Do n't try to fix them I get it. You're sick and tired of seeing them in pain, both emotionally and physically, and you ...

PAIN IN MY HEART

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The worst thing to have to deal with is pains. And the truth is we all feel it As long as we are humans in human form (phsyical flesh) We are responsive to pain.  Pains adjust us mentally, they help us build our inner strength and most of the time it puts us back in the right direction. But this is if you can use pain to your advantage.  For me, pains and anger (holy anger) motivates me a lot I like to call it "holy anger" because it causes me to react to my goals, ideas, dreams and to act upon them. It is not the type of anger to fight, no not that one. It is an anger to drive me to a better and logical decision It only reminds me that it's because of my present environment and incapacity I experienced such abuse that caused such pain or anger This is relative, it works for me. I get angry within my spirit, cry to myself and tell myself I need to do better. You can learn this too, you don't have to be down because of what someone said to you. I know words...

HE DID NOT POST ME ON SM ON VAL'S DAY

   Hello boos, this is our first actual blog of the year, I am so ashamed of myself, I de cover my face  Well sha, I hope it is not too late to wish you all beautiful people a happy new year. So boos, as you all know I lost my dada, my most precious gift from God on the 3rd of this year, ahhh it is not even funny, and the truth is I cannot even really explain how hurt I am, it is like I am saying to myself that I am fine but I am internally broken.  Ahhh, see me already diverting I just said I should hint some of you who may not know what happened to me at the beginning of this year.  So things have changed on here o, I am changing the style of our blog o, are you excited? See ehn the idea just came to my mind, like I was washing and it just came.  My last blog was in august of 2021 and I have been unproductively busy, lol I have been productively busy with my 9-5 job and pretty much other things. Wulikascorner is now really my corner o, as I will be tellin...