He is not matured enough

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 Does Age really play an important  role in relationships/marriage?

          
Yes it does, oh yes it does.

Some people have left their relationships/marriages because of this age thing. 
                 
         


Some people actually debate about their age to their significant other, talking about how much older they are and trying to draw a line so that their S.O do not cross their boundaries.

Some people give a damn while others do not really care.

I personally love a man who is older than me so I can give him more respect.

Although this does not mean that I can't respect a man who is not older.

But I love an older man, it gives him the chance to usurp more authority on me, I love men that can be MEN.

I honestly cannot date or marry a man that is younger than me, I know you will say if there is love it would not matter.

Yes, this is true if there is love it should not matter.

But will you also say because you and your partner love eachother you will over look other factors that matter?

There are some factors that should be considered.

If you know you are not going to respect a man younger than you then do not date or marry one so you do not have issues in the future. 

Likewise if you as a man know you cannot marry a woman that you can't have control over because she will always remind you that she's older and she knows better then do not go further with it.

Some women can take that as an advantage and begin to authorize their partner, which is not good.

Every one has their choice and do not care if you're younger or older as long as they can deal.

Comments

  1. UnknownJuly 14, 2020 at 2:11 PM

    Nice writeup
    I can't date or marry someone I'm older than

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    1. WulikascornerJuly 15, 2020 at 2:03 PM

      Thank you. Good it's nice that you know what you want so as to avoid future brouhaha and trying to manage your behaviour in the marriage or relationship

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  2. OlajumokeJuly 15, 2020 at 3:24 AM

    I won't like to be with a younger guy, I prefer the older ones infact enough age gap(6 years and more), lol!

    It all boils down to individual choice anyway...

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  3. WulikascornerJuly 15, 2020 at 2:04 PM

    Exactly individual choice, we all have what we can deal with and can't deal with. I'm glad you know what you want for yourself

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