My emotions your priority

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  Have you ever been involved in a relationship and it just looks like this guy does not just care?
 Well, if you have welcome on board.

This is for the ladies; some men are not sensitive, not sensitive to change in voice, not sensitive to change in mood, not sensitive to change in expression, they do not understand when everything is not right.
 Well, I would advise you do not blame them, although sometimes they try to be sensitive but they just get it all wrong.

 The way you express your emotion towards a particular thing is definitely different from the next person behind you, everybody is different. With different ways of understanding and assimilation, people tend to react differently to situations based on their own perception.

   I always encourage compatibility because then you just get the person, lol.

 Although most men try to hide their concern about your feeling but trust me they really are concerned, they just try to avoid the negativity around and act like all is well.

 And sometimes they are busy with trying to fix their own problem.
 But in every relationship that wants to grow and lead to a beautiful end, the emotions of your spouse should be your concern.

 Learn how they react to different things, get used to them, acquaint yourself with what they like around them and what they do not.
  Once you take your time to learn these things about them, making their emotion your priority and business, you are on your way to having a sweet good relationship.

   Take your time, do not be too busy to learn  some things that will help you help your relationship.

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