Pride goes before a fall 2

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Hmmm, if you think there is anyway you can keep pride in you and succeed, then you are mistaking.
  Pride goes before a fall.

 A lot of persons find it very difficult to be subject to someone else, they find it difficult to be the one apologizing and making things work out. They just feel, it is not in my place to take the first step.

  If you lack humility in your relationship and marriage, you will be having a lot of avoidable problems. 

  In case you have forgotten no human is perfect and it takes a degree of tolerance to be able to cope with them.

 There should be absolutely no problem in telling our spouse sorry, that can destroy the anger and rage that already exists.

  Arguments just lead to more, when you think you let yourself down by keeping quiet and not responding to some certain things you do not know what you have avoided.

  In marriage, you should be ready to swallow a lot just so you can live in peace with your spouse. There are certain things that should no longer be found in us.

  And that is why before certain persons jump into marriage, you should have worked so hard on yourself, disciplining yourself , dealing with the things that will ruin your marriage.

  You have anger issues, work on it before entering into a marriage covenant. Is it intolerance, learn to cohabit with others, accommodate them.
 Because marriage is not something you run away from, it is a life covenant.

 If you claim to be ready for marriage and you still pick offenses from little things, I am sorry to let the truth but you ain't just ready for that. 

Someone said "Marriage is a school, you never graduate from". No one is saying you should ensure you are perfect before you accept the rings, but to a reasonable extent be good and acceptable. 

   Be that charm your spouse sees and be like oh my, how is she just this good.

 In marriage and relationship, you let go of so many things, prepare your heart because hell yeah your spouse will annoy, hurt, irritate and do all manner stuffs to you but get prepared because it should not affect the peace of your love.

  Have you ever wondered why marriages fail, there are different reasons but major because of pride, you can't just say sorry.

 As a Christian, you take in the fruits of the spirit that expresses a lot and affect others around you.

  Pride will not help your relationship, it will only bring strife, resentment and then finally breakup.

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