Challenges Are Important For Your Relationship

   Trust me there are challenges when it comes to love, relationship and marriage.

I listened to a man on YouTube when he was saying that you can live without having issues with those around you, so I am going to ask is this really true? Like realistically speaking, can anyone truly not have issues with the people they live with? The people they see everyday, you practically sleep and wake with these people.
 
There is this thing I have noticed although I stand to be corrected that distance somehow helps relationships to be stronger (this is not just limited to love relationship family relationship also).

When people are distant from themselves there is less time to have quarrels. I mean this person is not in your hair and you can breathe, right?

And this is another reason why I personally do not advocate long distance relationship because you won't see any red flag, you won't see the personality that you have to see.

That isn't good, please do not be deceived into believing that your relationship is healthy when you are all lovey-dovey over the phone with your partner.

The strength of love is tested after a conflict!

If you are expecting not to have moments where you really feel like leaving everything and just walking away, because of the intensity of the argument then you are not ready for a life of commitment.

The Bible even encourages us to strive to live peaceably with all men because my dear you will be disappointed at how someone's character, attitude and behaviour can turn you off.

It actually takes two matured people to make a successful relationship.

I will tell you in my other post why, but for now hold on to this. Don't feel your partner is a devil and someone you meet new is an angel, every relationship every marriage needs to survive challenges. It only strengthens them.