WHY YOU FEEL INSECURE

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You wanna know why you feel insecure and what you should do.

              


Read on! 


Firstly, you should know everyone of us have a level of insecurity in us.


   Like I said, "a level", because there are some who have insecurity issues that affect their relationship badly.

   In cases like this, I advise you do not start or enter a relationship

unless you are willing and ready not to hurt your partner.


Most people do not understand the hurt and cut of insecurity effect in a relationship.


It is toxic!


   Now, it is not your fault that you feel insecure 

   No one was born insecure, as children we were born fearless but as we grew we had encounters.

    Encounters with situations that threatened our strength of faith and confidence.

   Alot of people, both Male and female likewise have had bad experiences in their past relationships.


   They went through emotional torture with their ex and that gave a mental picture of how all their partners will be


   Meanwhile these pictures are mostly just pictures, they don't exist!

   You trusted someone and they bruised that trust, the ones you loved broke the trust you had for them 

   Now it is hard for you to trust again


   But truth is you cannot continue this way, you cannot continue to be in the state of insecurity and lose amazing people that mean well for you.


  Work on yourself, love yourself accept what happened and Move on!


Be ready for disappointment, expect less and hope for the best.



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