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   Trust me there are challenges when it comes to love, relationship and marriage. I listened to a man on YouTube when he was saying that you can live without having issues with those around you, so I am going to ask is this really true? Like realistically speaking, can anyone truly not have issues with the people they live with? The people they see everyday, you practically sleep and wake with these people.   There is this thing I have noticed although I stand to be corrected that distance somehow helps relationships to be stronger (this is not just limited to love relationship family relationship also). When people are distant from themselves there is less time to have quarrels. I mean this person is not in your hair and you can breathe, right? And this is another reason why I personally do not advocate long distance relationship because you won't see any red flag, you won't see the personality that you have to see. That isn't good, please do not be deceived i...

Many at times we hear people complaining of their inability to grow spiritually, they begin to blame God of His decision not to help them. They feel God doesn't want to assist them and give them gifts, to grow. I think i should come in here to let you know that nothing depends on God but everything depends on you. You wanna grow spiritually it is in your power and not in Gods'. The Bible repeatedly shows us places where God kept admonishing us to draw near, come closer to be the first to show the hand of friendship. No man grows just by desire, there are processes and desire is the first stage of spiritual growth but it is not all. If you are willing to grow that's desire when you work towards it by doing other things (which i am going to talk about) you grow. Many people say but they don't act. It's quite easier to talk and desire but harder to act on it. Let's boil down to some of the few things we need to know about spiritual growth. 1. DESIRE ...

     We all hope to get something that we have either been promised of or convinced about getting. Only for us to be disappointed. The question is what do you do when what you expect doesn't come through for you? You should know that in life we dont always win as well as lose; there are times we hit the jackpot there are other times we lose badly; we could say life is unfair but I think life is actually fair, because have you forgotten that nothing is perfect?  There is always the rain and the Sun, evil and good so things can't always be the same, it can only be fair and not perfect. Now lots of people do not know how to react to loss, because they have put so much hope in that particular thing they get hit by the result that doesn't Favor them and end up committing suicide, or getting really depressed and hurting themselves emotionally; like a loss of relationship one kept in very high esteem in their hearts, hoping it would lead to something serious but were ...

    Yup,  you heard this here; if it fails then it was NEVER love. I personally do not think that any situation should be capable of tearing two people apart, do you know what Love Is? So many people do not know what it really is.  Love is beyond saying the words it is deeper than that, Love is a bond, Love is a tie, Love cannot be broken.  I know there are so many relationships around us that have broken and even the ones we got involved in, if it is easy for two people to part ways without any emotional pain that is an obvious sign that There was NEVER love.  I hear things like "falling out of love", is there really a thing like that? Is anyone every supposed to fall out of love? Well the answer is NO.   I have a lot of questions on my mind to ask because this topic is quite an interesting one but I think I will pass. But really why will anyone that said he was in love fall out of love? You cannot love someone and stop loving them and thi...

        This is a question I am still searching an answer to.   This post is not exactly to tell you whether love dies or not but to take us on a journey of different love experiences. So pick a bottle of juice, grab a seat and read!     Someone once said love never dies no that is no someone that was my ex. We were discussing and he said love never dies and I got wondering, how do you mean? We broke up! Now the fact that his love did not die does not mean some people do not grow out of love. Most people do hence they get tired and give up on it.      But let us think about this for a moment, what kind of love are we even talking about here? is it the "world's" kind of love or God's kind of love?      I do not know about the world's kind of love but I am certain about God's kind of love; it NEVER DIES. God said the peace that He gives is not as the world gives; so we can say that the love that God gives is defin...